I have always been uncomfortable with eye contact, which maybe
puts me at the low low on the autism spectrum, though I am more than
highly functional in the world, except for lack of sex and romance.
which is perhaps why I have always been
challenged by cruising.

I just get no emotional charge whatever out of
staring anyone in the eyes or being stared at.

I am just curious about how it might be used in the context of magic
and how important it is.